You’ve thought of everything – the scented candles are burning, you’ve tidied away all the washing (after about five weeks!), you’ve thought of the meal, but you don’t know what wine to offer. Perhaps you’re reading this for a date at the weekend and need to order something online. You want to wine and dine her and send the right message. Ahh, the anxiety. Take a deep breath because we have a short guide to help you find the right wine for a date.
First things first – consider the occasion. Is it a casual get-together or a fancy dinner? This will give you an idea of the type of wine to choose. In general, lighter wines are better for more laid-back dates, while fuller-bodied wines can elevate a more formal setting.
The next thing to remember is what your date does and doesn’t like. Do they typically enjoy red or white wine? Are they adventurous and open to trying something new, or do they prefer sticking to the classics? You don’t want to pick a wine that your date won’t enjoy – it could put a damper on the evening. Those who don’t know their date’s preferences should think about offering a couple of options. You can ask them their preference and keep this information in mind for all future dates (if it goes well, of course). You can drown your sorrows with the unused bottle at a later date if it goes horribly (message your friend during horribly).
Remember that your choice of wine sends a message. If you’re looking for something romantic and sensual, opt for a velvety red wine like Pinot Noir or Merlot. If you want to show off your refined taste, go for a bold and complex Cabernet Sauvignon or Syrah. For a playful and light-hearted vibe, try a sparkling wine like Prosecco or Champagne. What do you want to say?
Wine is wine – most people will say thank you and get to drinking. You can also do that old fashioned thing of asking your date. How very not 2024. In the end, the key is to pick something you both can enjoy and have a blast. And hey, even if all else fails, you’ll have a hilarious tale to share about that one time you unwittingly ordered a bottle of blueberry wine on your first date. Cheers to unforgettable moments.
There are loads of wrong things to do even if there are no precise right things. Steer clear of cheap or overly sweet wines – they can leave the impression of inexperience or trying too hard. Let’s sip sophistication, not sugar. Also, steer clear of any wines with cheesy names or labels (we’re looking at you, “Barefoot”). Only kidding – Barefoot is a delicious wine.
Don’t think about it too much. One good tip is to get a wine that you love because you’ll enjoy it even if the night doesn’t go to plan. You’ll at least have a great drink in hand!
